Betrayal

I'm kind of sad today! I have reason to believe that a very dear friend of mine, who I've known for almost 20 yrs. has lied to me! Why is this a big deal?? Because we're friends and friends don't do that to each other. Regardless of what he said he didn't do, and it turns out that he did, I don't think it would've mattered to me had he just been truthful. There was no reason for him to lie to me like he's been lying to everyone else. That's the kind of friend I am. I only want the truth, and I don't think that's a huge request! I never thought he'd do this, and that's where the hurt lies right now! I feel like there are other things that he may be lying about now, so what can I believe? His wife is the kind to turn a story around for her to come out the innocent one, but I always thought he was man enough to accept responsibility for his actions, and not try to lie his way out of it. So, how does one know when they are being deceived? When do you question them? I actually did that this morning in an email, so I'm waiting for a response. I know he's lying. I've got proof. You might think this man is more than my friend, but it's never been more than a friendship, but one that I've treasured. My heart hurts!