I don't get it!

Ok, I've been working all day in and outside of the house. Cutting grass, doing laundry, cleaning bathrooms, etc. My boyfriend went to the airport to pick up his brother who flew in from Texas, then they were going to the sportsbar to watch the first half the the Steeler game. I get a call from their father, wanting to know why I wasn't at the bar with them?? Are you kidding me??? I don't care of exhibition games. They don't count towards regular season, and I just didn't feel like going anywhere. I wanted to just sit on my ass and rest! Also, the guys don't see each other that much, so I'm giving them time to themselves! Sheesh! I do NOT need to be up my boyfriend's ass every second of the day, or any second for that matter. I do NOT have to do anything that I don't want to do! I'll be 44 yrs old next Saturday, and I'll be damned if I am about to cower to others. I am going to help their parents move to a smaller house tomorrow, and I'm bracing myself for "Let the guys move that", or "That's too much for you to do without help!" Pat's (my b/f) brothers are not the heavy moving type of guys. They are lazy actually, and I know I can do more than they can in any given day, not that I have to prove that to anyone, but they are the old fashioned type, and a woman should only do the cleaning, cooking, toilet scrubbing...you get my drift! I'm just hoping that I don't get too offended and just go off on someone! Oh well, just had to vent! I know I've posted something similar in the past, but this is just one of the things that I can't tolerate. I'm able to do a lot of things that some men wouldn't even begin to do. Lord help me tomorrow!!